Things to Look Out For Before You Marry by Apostle Joshua Selman

the koinonia experience

There are certain things a lady must find in a man otherwise don’t marry him:

1. Any man who is not God fearing

A man that is not God fearing not born again. He can be a faith-filled Christian and not God-fearing.

Faith in God and the fear of God are two different things

To be God-fearing means to:

  1. To have reverence and respect for God
  2. To Submit to the ways of God and the word of God as the final authority in all matters
2. The man must submit to an earthly authority for mentorship, for building, and for correction.
3. The man must have passion for you not love. Any man who doesn’t have passion for you will be unfaithful not if but when – Apostle Joshua Selman.
4. Never marry a man that is irresponsible. He must have responsibilities.
To be responsible means:
  • To be aware of the cost dimension of life. It comes from the heart not through cars or houses.

There are certain things a man must find in a lady otherwise don’t marry her:

1. Any lady who is not God fearing

2. Submission to her husband at all times convenient or not. (Submission is a risk and it is done by faith). Ephesians 5:22-23 KJV.

3. Sacrificial and hospitable.

4. Physical factor.
They are important but they will fade like a leaf. If you are attracted to someone just physically, you are in trouble.

1 Timothy 5:8 KJV

Advice for men

  1. Be a responsible man. Burden Obligation over someone or something
  2. Responsibility is an awareness of consequences.

Why people are not responsible

  1. There indecision over their success and establishment. When you stop making excuses
  2. Admit your mistakes
  3. Stop blaming other people for your problems

Casting out the spirit of the waster. Proverbs 21:20 


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