Living A Life That Counts (2025 Special Birthday Broadcast) by Apostle Selman

Living A Life That Counts Special Birthday Broadcast by Apostle Selman AJSBirthday2025

Our world is full of sad, depressed and lonely people, who have lost hope, joy and meaning to life.

It is God’s desire that we all live a life of purpose and meaning, and God gives everyone that opportunity to live a life that truly counts.
I pray for you that at the end of this broadcast, you’ll truly live a life that counts, in the name of Jesus Christ!

Everyone wants to taste a life of success, yet sadly, many never get the opportunity to live a life of purpose nor a life that counts.

In life, there are things that if you do not have knowledge of, nor know them on time, it will take the grace of God to correct those mistakes.

I pray for you, that from today, you’ll begin to live a life that counts, in the name of Jesus Christ!

“The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly”- John 10:10 (KJV)

The starting point to anyone’s journey of greatness is Jesus

What We Receive When We Come To Jesus Christ:

– Life (1John 5: 10.-12)
– Peace (John 14: 27, Philippians 4: 7)
– Joy (1Peter 1: 😎
– A reason to live – a life of purpose and meaning (Jeremiah 29: 11, John 15: 16)

Your life counts to the degree to which you intentionally contend for a superior belief system.

A superior belief system is beyond being more Western and being more academic; it doesn’t mean being more logical, but it means sustaining the mindset and the thinking of Jesus Christ. (Philippians 2:5 KJV)

Transformation for the Believer is with respect to The Word of God. To the degree to which your mind is Word-compliant, is the degree to which you are transformed.

It is your responsibility as part of your quest for growth, to constantly probe your belief system and retain only that which is a superior Word-complaint belief system.

It is your responsibility as part of your quest for growth, to constantly probe your belief system and only retain that which is a superior Word complaint belief system.

Declare: I CONTEND FOR TRANSFORMATION!

Transformation is not an impartation, it is a function of your love for the Word of God and the teachings of the Holy Spirit.

The man who cannot be helped is the man who refuses to change. You cannot help a man who is unwilling to change.

The man who cannot be helped is the man who refuses to change. You cannot help a man who is unwilling to change.

I pray for you: Every limiting belief system that has partnered with darkness to keep you weak, I detach you from such belief system now, in Jesus Christ name.

In this world, there is a standard for value to be rewarded. Your level of value determines the depth of your influence and the magnitude of your reward. For value to be rewarded, it must be extremely useful.

You cannot remain valuable and productive if you’re unwilling to unlearn, relearn, and upgrade to superior practices.

Your value to men will define their perception of your importance, alongside their willingness to honour and reward you.
To the degree to which you’re useful is the degree to which you’re perceived and rewarded. What people feel about you is a function of how useful you are to them.

You don’t stop people from trivializing you by demanding their respect. You stop them by becoming so valuable and indispensable that ignoring you becomes impossible

If you’re more conscious on receiving rather than giving, you will never command true honour. It is the giver the world celebrates.

The realm of greatness has two access points:

1. The door of need
2. The door of value
Entering through the door of need may get you in, but it rarely earns you honour. True greatness is accessed and sustained through the door of value.

Relationships are bridges: some can lead to an exceptional life and some can lead to a future filled with pain and regrets. Choose your connections wisely.

The basis of your human existence is not knowledge, but relationships.

You cannot thrive in today’s world and rise to a level of greatness without mastering people skills. Your ability to relate, communicate, and discern is a non-negotiable key to success.
Three foundational laws for mastering relationships:

I. The Law of Honor – Recognizing and celebrating the worth in others.
II. The Law of Words – Knowing what to say, how to say it, and when to be silent.
III. The Law of Timing – Discernment to act at the right time, not just with the right intent.

In the name of Jesus Christ, every relationships that you may have lost due to a lack of understanding of relationship dynamics, may God restore it for you by His mercy.

Keys To Living A Life That Counts:

1.⁠ ⁠A genuine encounter and genuine experience with The Lord Jesus Christ. (John 10:10)
2.⁠ ⁠Transformation — contending for a superior belief system greater than your current context.
3.⁠ ⁠Value and Contribution — Make your life matter by adding meaningful impact.
4.⁠ ⁠Master Relationships — Build connections that empower and elevate.
5.⁠ ⁠Live by Values — Let your character guide you, not circumstance.
(Proverbs 25:28)
6.⁠ ⁠Always be Guided by Vision and Purpose, not by fleeting emotions.

One way God brings help into your life is by bringing the person in proximity with another person who is already established.

While it’s often said that who hates you doesn’t matter, the truth is if too many people dislike you, it can also hinder your success in life. Choose your company wisely.

The greatest value to live by is self control. Everything that God gave humans, He gave us the ability to control.
The moment you lose the ability to lose control of the thing God gave you, the devil will hijack it.

Learn to master your body, mind, and spirit. Develop a moral creed rooted in the Word of God, a guiding foundation that shapes every aspect of your life.

The power to say ‘NO’ is proof that you’ve grown.
Our greatest weakness often lies in the inability to say NO and the refusal to set boundaries.

For many, their greatest weakness isn’t sin, but the inability to say “No” to people and things.
The power to say “No” is proof that you have grown. If you always say “Yes” to everything, you open the door to unnecessary struggles and burdens.

Desires and pursuits only become truly profitable to the degree to which they’re connected to your purpose.

As a leader, you cannot lead people to a safe haven if your life is ruled solely by emotions.

Many prayers remain unanswered because they are not aligned with your God-given purpose.
Asking the question ‘WHY’ is a powerful secret that can help you tame an insatiable appetite for vain and meaningless living.

The central theme for your life and the reason for obtaining anything from God must be to reveal and glorify Jesus Christ.

If God trusts that you will use the influence, greatness, finances, and every blessing He gives you to reveal and glorify Him, then you have completed the bargain for a life marked by greatness.

Keys To Living A Life That Counts:

1.⁠ ⁠A genuine encounter and genuine experience with The Lord Jesus Christ. (John 10:10)
2.⁠ ⁠Transformation — contending for a superior belief system greater than your current context.
3.⁠ ⁠Value and Contribution — Make your life matter by adding meaningful impact.
4.⁠ ⁠Master Relationships — Build connections that empower and elevate.
5.⁠ ⁠Live by Values — Let your character guide you, not circumstance.
(Proverbs 25:28)
7.⁠ ⁠Genuinely desire the good of all people, especially fellow Believers. (Luke 2:14)
8.⁠ ⁠Understand the brevity of life and making each moment count. (Psalm 90:12)

You can never live a truly impactful life if you do not genuinely desire the good of all people. Learn to have a positive disposition towards people as a first response to them.

Most people are not intrinsically evil; they are simply in desperate need of salvation, deliverance, revelation, growth, and transformation.

A change of mind without a change of heart is a fruitless pursuit.

You must learn to discern the motives behind people’s actions, because while actions can be flawed, the individuals may be sincere.
If you judge people solely by their actions, you risk pushing many good people out of your life.

CAUTION: Do not wish for, do not anticipate, and do not support the downfall of anyone in the Body of Christ.

When you celebrate birthdays, you’re not only celebrating the distance covered but you’re also acknowledging the distance left or the journey ahead.

Every departed life is a silent sermon, a constant reminder that time is ticking and fleeting. Focus your life on what truly matters.

What Happens When We Encounter Jesus Christ:

1. We find true life when we encounter Jeus Christ (1 John 5:10-12)
2. We receive lasting peace (John 14:27; Philippians 4:7)
3. We experience deep joy
4. We discover our purpose and find a reason to live (Jeremiah 29:11; John 15:16)

One day, you won’t be here either because Jesus Christ has come to receive us or because you have transcended to glory. Every lifeless body on earth is a silent sermon, a constant reminder that the clock of destiny is ticking and will one day run out. So, focus only on what truly matters.

Live a life so effective and purposeful such that when that final moment comes knocking, you will rejoice knowing you have lived a Godly life and have fought the good fight of faith.

Three Most Important Things To Focus On To Live A Life That Counts:

1.⁠ ⁠Your Relationship with Jesus Christ.
2.⁠ ⁠Your Earthly Relationships (family relationship, corporate relationships, business relationships, etc).
Invest more in relationships than you invest in making money.
3.⁠ ⁠Your Assignment

Adulthood shouldn’t be defined or measured by age, but by one’s ability to make decisions, and the ability to distinguish between good and bad. This mindset will help individuals better understand the brevity of life.

Keys To Living A Life That Counts:

1.⁠ ⁠A genuine encounter and experience with The Lord Jesus Christ. (John 10:10)
2.⁠ ⁠Transformation — Contending for a superior belief system greater than your current context.
3.⁠ ⁠Value and Contribution — Make your life matter by adding meaningful impact.
4.⁠ ⁠Master Relationships — Build connections that empower and elevate.
5.⁠ ⁠Live by Values — Let your character guide you, not circumstance.
(Proverbs 25:28)
7.⁠ ⁠Genuinely desire the good of all people, especially fellow Believers. (Luke 2:14)
8.⁠ ⁠Understand the brevity of life and making each moment count. (Psalm 90:12)

Ask The Lord for something specific you desire in this season of your life.
Pray: Father, grant me wisdom for this next season of my life, wisdom that will elevate my level to greater heights, in the name of Jesus Christ!

Lord, I thank You. In the name of Jesus Christ, the Son of the living God, on this special occasion, I declare, receive help from God; financial help, spiritual help, career help, in the name of Jesus Christ! May God raise up men and women to support you and to drive your vision. May God raise men and women to stand by you, and to stand with you. You will not be left alone!

You will not be without men, you will not lack allies or helpers. Kings will stand with you. Warriors will stand with you. Champions will stand with you. Veterans will stand with you. Men and women of influence, gatekeepers of destiny will stand with you, in the powerful name of Jesus

I decree and declare, that the wisdom required for the next season of your life; the wisdom that leads to mighty works, wisdom connected to undeniable and extraordinary exploits, in the name of Jesus, may it rest upon you. Receieve wisdom for your business ventures, wisdom for your ministry, wisdom for your career. You will know what to do. You will know the right path to take. You will make superior decisions. Your work will radiate excellence, and your words will bring forth only excellence. You will only speak of excellence things, in the name of Jesus Christ!

I hear in my spirit: EBENEZER! — “Thus far the Lord has helped.”
Therefore, I decree and declare over your life, receive divine help, receive financial help, receive spiritual help, receive career help, in the name of Jesus Christ!

May God raise men and women to help you, stand by you, stand with you, and support you. You will not be left alone or without help, in the name of Jesus Christ!
I decree that kings, warriors, generals, gatekeepers, people of influence will rise to stand with you, in the powerful name of Jesus Christ!
I pray for you, the wisdom connected to mighty works and exploits, may it rest upon you now, in the name of Jesus Christ! You’ll know what to do and make superior decisions. Your work will speak of excellence, in the name of Jesus Christ!

I decree health and strength over your body. God will keep your body strong, your body will not deplete, you will not spend your days in the hospital, and every organ in your body will function optimally; no days lost to sickness, in the name of Jesus Christ!
Every scheme and conspiracy of darkness designed to abort your becoming, we declare it cancelled, in the name of Jesus Christ!

I declare: Go forward! Advance! Increase! By God’s power, run through a troop and leap over walls, in the name of Jesus Christ!
I pray for your prayer fire, it will never go down. Receive fresh fire! The grace to travail and the discipline to stay until your life changes and you’re saved, may that grace rest upon you now, in the name of Jesus Christ! May your appetite for God’s Word be fanned to flames now! Where you have compromised on your values, may God grant you the grace for a fresh belief that will sustain and propel your life forward!

Let the fire of The Holy Ghost rest mightily upon your life! I decree, may shame be far from you, reproach is far from you, may God show you mercy, in the name of Jesus Christ! Those seeking your downfall will search endlessly in vain. You’ll rise from glory to glory!

I decree and declare, the “Hear Ye Him” anointing rests upon you now. Receive the grace for visibility and influence. Men will see you, hear you, receive you, and reward you, in Jesus Christ name! You’ll call on one, and nations will answer. Nothing dies in your hands! I curse the spirit of premature death! Koinonia, none of you will die untimely and prematurely. Every covenant with death against you is cancelled and aborted!

Every family represented here and connected online will not go down. I decree unity and peace in your families, in the name of Jesus Christ! Where your parents stopped, you will rise above them. May the record-breaking anointing rest upon you! You will not be silent, a generation will receive your word, in the name of Jesus Christ!

I forbid lack and want in your life. May Jehovah Jireh arise on your behalf, open doors for you, and surprise you. You will never be in want; God will supply your daily bread and Shepherd your steps, in Jesus Christ’s name!

If Christ tarries, several years from now, you’ll still be standing strong! Everything that represents challenges and limitations will have no hold on you. What took me years to achieve, God will accelerate for you, in the name of Jesus Christ! May the doors that opened for me open for you also, may the mercy that speaks for me, speak for you too, in the name of Jesus Christ!

”I say unto you, that likewise, joy shall be in heaven over one sinner that repenteth, more than over ninety and nine just persons, which need no repentance.“ – ‭‭Luke‬ ‭15‬:‭7‬ ‭(KJV‬‬)

If you just gave your heart to Jesus Christ, Heaven is rejoicing over your decision, and so are we! Welcome to the family of God.
We would love to hear from you and walk with you, as you grow in your new life in Christ Jesus.